New Year Resolutions
January 2010

The end of December is the time of year when I look back at my Jan 01 new years resolutions to see which ones I've managed to keep and which ones fell by the wayside.  Happily, this year I am able to avoid the usual depressing realisation that most of my resolution were broken within the first few months or even weeks.

Last year I made one new years resolution; which was not to make any resolutions at all.  In consequence, when reviewing the past year,  I do not have to look failure in the face or question the strength of my self control. Today, I can see take a deep breath knowing that my self esteem is fully intact.

I am not alone. According to a study by GoCompare, millions of Britons are expected to make New Year resolutions, but 41% of will have broken their resolutions by the end of January.

A similar study by Prof. Richard Wiseman (University of Hertfordshire) carried out on 700 people, had even lower rates of success.  At the end of the study, only 22% achieved their goal.

Wiseman found that Individuals who attempted the commonly recommended approaches of focusing on the negative implications of not succeeding, removing temptation, having a role model and visualizing about being successful, tended to be counted among the unsuccessful group. "They simply don't work," he concluded.

So what do we have to do in order to ensure that our new year's resolutions are achieved?

The general consensus is that resolution success is most likely when someone makes a plan and devises a strategy to stick to it. The steps are:-

  • Make sure your resolutions are your goals and not the will of others. e.g. pressure from a partner to lose weight.
  • Make one or two resolutions, to ensure you channel your energy into their attainment.
  • Make resolutions well in advance of the new year to gather your focus.
  • Plan your strategy by breaking it down into small, achievable "chunks". e.g. If your resolution is to get fit, start by buying yourself new training shoes.
  • Do not to lose sight of what you're trying to achieve. Write it down and place it in a highly visible location e.g. placing it  on fridge door.
  • Make it measureable, achievable and time bound; ensuring that it is not to vague or unrealistic. For instance, don't say you'll lose half a stone in a week. Success is unlikely. However, you might achieve it over a period of weeks or even months.
  • Share your goals with friends and family to receive their support.
  • Track your progress through a journal, spreadsheet or via a notice board.
  • Give yourself small rewards as you see results during the process.
  • Don't give up after a temporary setback. Expect small failures from time to time and accept them.
In 2010, I am going to focus on what I want,  rather than what I don't want.  e.g. I don't want to be overweight, but I do want to be healthy and relatively fit.   I am not going to give up anything, nor am I going to adopt anything short term. This time next year,  I hope to be healthier, fitter and happier. I also hope to have positively contributed to the lives of my family, friends, colleagues and anyone who comes across my path.

Now all I need to do is plan the execution as detailed above.

Good luck with your resolutions and Happy New Year.